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Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Pick me!?


Life always present us with choices. Now, I'm gonna give u two options and u are allowed to pick one only.

Great guy in a long distance relationship or just a so-so guy that lives together with u?

By great guy I mean he is cute/hunk/buffy/lean/muscular, adorable, knows how to make u smile/laugh, always concern about u, great in bed, smart, sweet talking, pleasant, matured, childish. In short, he is the guy that has all the characteristics that u ever want in ur partner except he is far far away from u.

Maybe someone like him XD
While so-so guy is just, so-so. Has a decent personality with acceptable build, not too big nor too small, sometimes he makes u cry with small arguments here and there but in the end, u can always count on him. In short, nothing much to shout about.

To make matter easy, we will keep the most irrelevant variable a.k.a emotion here constant.

For me, even though having my ideal guy has been my dream, I would not hesitate to trade it with someone that will stay close to me. Although he won't be the most awesome guy out there, I don't mind it as long as I can touch, hug, cuddle, hold his hand, spoon-fed him, lean on his shoulder, feel his warmth, sleep with him embracing me.

So, what will it be for you?

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Love,
me
I want someone :(

19 comments:

  1. Great in bed? dont think that applies to you lah~ Mr Asexual... bluek!!! hahahaha

    ya, agree with your take =)
    A wise man once said, a cock in the hand is better than two in the bush~ ops... hahahahaha

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    1. of course, I know I'm not fit to be in the 'great guy' category..how could I compare with u..blueek! =P

      even that decent one is hard enough to find >_<

      well, u go join la and make it three in the bush....sure it will be better..haha

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  2. ugh geographically undesirable.

    unless its long term, i think i will stick to the first.

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    1. yeah...no matter how advanced the technology be, it cant never replace the feeling that we get from holding someone we loved with our own hand...

      how long is long for u?

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  3. If the long distance is not forever then I would choose the first guy but if the long distance thing is gonna last forever, I would choose the second guy.

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    1. even if it doesnt last forever, most people cant even get past 5 years of LTR, I think =D

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  4. As long as he is my type then i don't care far or near. I will work it out. :)

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    1. ahhhh nice..it is quite rare to find someone that can withstand the test of distance..hat off to u =)

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  5. i would choose the one that lives with me, dun like long distance relationships

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    1. yeah, that is what people will usually pick..I know ppl always said love should be able to overcome everything but unfortunately, they forgot that we are human with emotion and feeling

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  6. First guy sounds too good to be true. But if he is the one for me, then I'll try to make it work. I would even move just to be with him, no matter where he is. IF he is really the right one lah of course.

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    1. If I can move over with him, of course I would do that..if u can't, what will u do, jason?

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  7. The eternal problem of choices....i know many who have settled for #2 but continue to yearn & meet up with #1....plus the consequences...Now who said life is easy? (seriously, i would still fall back on who loves me more, so to speak: am i #1 or #2 for him?)

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    1. that is just plain rude, i would say, or inappropriate to be done...unless they ard decide beforehand that it gonna be an open relationship, never ever cheat behind his back and keep looking for someone..if he did that, there is no guarantee that his future partner wont do the same thing to him

      even if u began as #2 to him, over time once the feeling develops, u will take ur rightful place at the top...Dont u remember, Love is blind =P hehe

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  8. i would have chose 2 in a heartbeat. :)

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  9. whooaaa... tough choice tough choice.... then again the hunky one might cheat behind your back kan? takkan lah dah hunky2 tak der orang nak kan... better ick the one near you... :)

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    1. hahahaha..put some trust in people...some have good body and good attitute as well =D

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    2. and a very good dick!! *where the heck did that come from?*

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