Getting to know someone doesn't mean anything if u are not even considered as an option by him. In the process of courting/dating, do set/label the guy u are seeing accordingly. Is he worthy enough to be another option or does he fulfill most of ur standards that he can put as a priority?
At the same, u have to guess/assume/predict ur position in his eye. Does it matter what he see u as? Yes, it is. If he regard u as just another option, do put ur expectation low. Don't expect him to be all over u in that period no matter what u did to him. It will be difficult to u if u take him as a priority while he only put u as an option. That will make u feel underappreciated.
In my case, I have the feeling that I am just an option to him whereas his list of priority is kinda long. In fact, I think his friend position looms higher than me, which is not surprising. I do understand why and I won't ask him to change. His choice. So, gonna put the lowest expectation and working out the worst possible scenario that could happen.
Ah well, as if I'm not used to this kind of situation yet.
Love,
me
guess, assume, predict, if only I have super power to read minds whenever I want, oh and time travel too, so I can win a lotto jackpot, but if I have that capability I may wanna live in the future instead
ReplyDeletehahahaha. for once, I do want the 1st power. the 2nd one, I prefer to go back to the past and fix my stupidity so that I wont end up the way I am right now =D hehe
DeleteThat's why, I think in my opinion, never pour your all on someone unless you're pretty sure there's a possible something with him.
ReplyDeleteThat's the thing. U will never be pretty sure,so it's a gamble with lots of risk taken =)
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