I discovered something new, not the least amazing, about myself.
I get over someone quite easily.
Call it heartless, emotionless or anything, once I chose to shut the feeling down, it didn't take long before it's gone completely.
Take my most recent..... endeavor as example. I had high hope for it to work out well, I put almost everything in it in such short time but it still crumbled. How long it took me to get over him? Less than a week. Some may say because it's still new and nothing much yet but I knew my feeling towards him was genuine.
I reckon been an avid listener is not a bad thing after all. As I listened to people's problem and breakup, I prepared myself to face such mishap so that when the cruel truth bite me, I was ready. I did fumble but the recovery was sooner than expected.
The other reason was because of a wisdom I got from 'Tuesday with Morrie'. When been asked whether he felt sad because of the predicament he's in due to the ALS, he said he will but no more than few minutes in the morning. Give urself a good cry if u need it but then concentrate on all good things still in life. I cried for one night because of him but that's it. He doesn't deserve anymore than that.
Should be meeting my three weedevils tomorrow but need to postpone it to next month. Can't wait to see them =)
"Love wins. Love always win."
Love,
me
maybe u were deceived by that feeling that u thought was something? only reason i can think of, not heartless la
ReplyDeleteyeah, could be. ah well, not worth thinking anymore XD hehe
DeleteIts good to move on quickly!!
ReplyDeleteyeah it is or else chance might slip away while u were grieving over the past =)
Delete"Tuesday with Morrie" is a nice book!!! Glad that you used his idea and thinking of life on yourself =)
ReplyDeletePeople always like that, move on fast, say you heartless; move on slow, say you are a fool.
yeah, read all mitch's books....
Deletehahahahaahaha..true true, so hard to please everyone