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Tuesday, November 20, 2012

3rd time, the charm?

I should have known better.......

Always advise others to be careful but end up, I did the same mistake...

Rule of thumb - avoid dating bi..

When people have a choice, nobody gonna pick the worst possible ever. Between the miserable, shunned life or the so-called normal life, isn't the choice obvious? Stupid of me to think he will be any different

Don't say I'm such understanding guy. What else can I do? Beg u to stay and love me? No way! Frankly speaking, I will accept that we are not meant to be together but I do feel a bit angry. If u have the plan to marry a girl in near future and have ur own family, why are u wasting time dating guy and giving hope to others?

Do u expect that I will get into relationship with u for 5-10 years, then let u go marry a girl while I'm left with nothing? Which sane guy would agree to that?! I really don't understand.

Guess I was right about one thing. There is not gonna be a third date.

Love,
me

16 comments:

  1. I nearly dated a bi before.. he broke up with his girlfriend for me.. Then i realize he might just do the same in the future for a girl.. So big no no too.. lol..

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    1. hahaha. if a gay do that, it's a big no-no as well =P haha

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  2. Because of social norm and discrimination, bi mostly to just 'date' guy while commit long term relationship with girl =( Sad sad....

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    1. yeah, such a pity since some bi are so hot =P LOL. btw, nice DP. so now Mr Shin Yong has a face I can put on =D

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  3. Sorry to hear that but at least it's a smart choice to end it now before you commit with him for another 5 years or more and then only to have him end it because he doesn't want his wife and his new family to know about you. Hugs...

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    1. true. if only I knew about it earlier. Ah well, at least the memories were sweet =)

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  4. i once heard a bi said this: "it is best to be a bi, can screw around and enjoy myself, and when i have enough fun, i can then get married and have my own family." and he completed his sentence as such: "cos as a bi, i can have the cake and eat it..."

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    1. I really hate such thinking. he better be careful or else the gay partner may take revenge someday. haha

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    2. i just learn to avoid bi's altogether... save the heartaches... even if it is nsa fun...

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    3. yeah, later suddenly the wife come attack u XD haha

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    4. haha... in the few times i have experienced, the bi will be totally freaked out for as long as there is the tiniest wee bit of sign that suggests the wife know about him... so, no, the gay man will not get it from the wife, the husband will. hahahahahahaaha!

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    5. yeah. considering how the court so gonna rule in favor of the wife in the case of settlement, nobody gonna take any chance. LOL =P

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  5. Erm, sorry to hear that :(
    Let it belah. Still got lot of guys queuing out there:]
    This is how I try to comfort myself after I am being told that he is straight. Hahaha...
    A good lesson for you.
    *Hugs...*

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    1. hahahahahaha. if only that is true, I can easily pick one. no need to susah2 look around =D

      yeah, a really good one. hope u are doing well for ur study there, kyan =)

      *huggie to u*

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  6. i understand that feeling, and hate it when they say something like that, treating us gays as their pleasure ride or sex toy, damn them, hahahahahaha

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    1. hahahaha. time to ignore them. I know not all is like that but rather not take the risk anymore. Once is enough d =D

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