U met someone that interested u and interested in u as well. So what's next? Do u bid ur time, getting to know him better 1st before getting serious with relationship? Or will u jump headlong into it and get to know him along the way?
The safe road is always the one that needs the most patience. If u choose to know him 1st, it gonna be a while before u can proclaim him as your boyfriend. Not only that, u have to trust him that he won't cheat u behind your back. Some are impatient to get into one, so your option of waiting 1st might not bode well with them. The good side is that it gonna lower the chance of mishap in the relationship further down as u both have know each other well and know that there is connection or chemistry between the two of u.
The risk with the latter is freaking big. It's like going for a sleepover with a stranger. U don't know what u gonna get; a silent sleeper, snore so loud that u cant even sleep, whistling while sleep and lots more. U are betting a lot on this one and it won't be easy. But the unknown can also bring thrill with it, of finding out what are his characteristics, what he likes and dislikes, appreciating his strength, accepting his weakness.
It's the feeling that matters most, in the end.
Love,
me
p/s: CX wrote about this some time ago as well
Don't think so hard on it. Just enjoy your time with him. Get to know him better. No need to stress yourself thinking about labels.
ReplyDeleteyeah. We never think of it, not even talk about it =)
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