When someone say he loves u after knowing u for a while, without even knowing how u look, will u believe him?
He is either just trying to cheat u so that u want to have sex with him or some other benefits......
or it is love at first sight...from his side obviously
It is not hard to differentiate between those two. Just say u wanna hold it off for a while, need some time to think or something along that line where he won't get immediate answer. The first type will gone in a second after u said it, leaving no trace behind. Well, not like u been lamenting his departure XD
The latter will stay and linger, waiting for your answer. If he did stay, then it's time to make your call, whether u gonna give him chance or let him move on. Don't take too long to think. Tell him if u don't like him.
After all, he needs time for his closure as well.
Love,
me
herm...
ReplyDeletewhat if you are the one making the call?
really hard to decide at times...
Well, if he readily yes, either he didn't think much or he like u as well. Go with ur gut feeling, I would say. After all, u have lots of experience already, Joker =)
DeleteSomeone is in love, but still can't make the call
ReplyDeleteHaha. It is never easy to make one, I think XD
DeleteI would go for MY first love, not the other's.
ReplyDeleteIf one would make me go nuts in the first sight, that's the one.
If my logic kicks in, its not the one.
If he make u go nuts in the first sight, isn't that because how he look or his smile or his appearance rather than because of his personality and attitude?
DeleteBut true, make ur 1st time for someone that u really feel special towards =)
I ask that question every time i meet someone new.. =/
ReplyDeleteWell, trust ur instinct but give u and urself some time to think =)
DeleteSweet dreams are made of this
ReplyDeleteWho am I to disagree?
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Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused
...ahhh the wisdom of EURYTHMICS
Haha. U are one with a hubby and years of experience. U had every right to disagree xP
DeleteSo, love is about use and abuse. Nicely put. hehe XD