Part 2 : Prey or predator?

Do u go for someone that like u, or someone that u liked even though the feeling is not reciprocated?

It is not easy to pick one though most will pick the latter because they said if u don't like someone in the first place, then u won't no matter how hard u try.

Some may differ in that regard. For them, feeling is not something that manifests in some and not in others. It is something that is nurtured and grow over time from the tiniest speck that u don't even notice. U may not like him in the beginning but it will change, given ample of time and correct circumstances.

Nonetheless, the former is kinda a coward play. Unless the other party really understands that u actually do not have feeling towards him and is trying to build it, u may end up hurting him a lot more than saying 'No' to his advance. Make ur point clear from the beginning that this has some chances of not becoming a relationship and that he should not have high expectation. If he is still willing, then get on with it. Never feel obliged to like someone if u don't and prepare to break his heart if nothing changes after sometimes.

It all depends whether u want to keep chasing one that is uncertain or try to make it happen with him that genuinely has feeling towards u. Your call.

Remember, don't frantically go chasing the glass over the other end of the world such that u don't even notice the glistering gem beside u.

Love,
me