When I'm shot with such question, I am taken aback and need to think, for very long. No matter how many times I'm asked, I'm always surprised by it.
I'm not like some *cough*tuls*cough* that have their preference ready in a sort-of list and go 'tick, tick, X, tick, X....' whenever someone caught their observant eye. It is such a huge help if I can make one.
Whenever I eye a potential candidate, my mind will like, make a split second decision and decide whether he's actually my type or not. urggghhh, cant even savor the moment
If I think carefully and clearly(without any guy ard =P), there is one trait that I want in my future other half more than anything. It is 'clingy' XD
He must be someone that need a guy to take care of him, someone that look weak and can easily get sick. okayyyyy...that is too much but I think u get what I mean =D hahahaha
I am someone that is crazy over taking care of someone. I don't mind take care of my grandmas from both side, of my friends when they fall sick, making sure they take medi's at the required time, bring their food.
Actually there is a physhological/behavioral disorder associated with such 'habit' if it is too severe but I forgot the name ard. gonna check the book later
Such a weirdo -.-
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Btw, a little 'skirmish' with a blogger last saturday.
I planned to write about it yesterday but curse TM, sucky ISP.
plus I think what I gonna write just sort of re-phrase of his post. So, go and check Calvin's post if u are interested to know =P hahaha
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it's called separation anxiety disorder, or should i say people with anxious attachment style. Just a mild expression of the taking care process is ok la, just not too extreme would be acceptable, hehe
ReplyDeletehahahaha...yeah, i believe everything in moderation shud be acceptable =D hehe
Deleteowh... im somewhat in total opposite. I used to have that kinda feelings, but now i just want the opposite XD
ReplyDeletehahaha...well some do prefer to have their own personal space and someone that is independant on his own =)
DeleteActually that sounded very sweet. Your partner would be so lucky to have you to take care of him.
ReplyDeleteAnd regarding the list, it's really not that important. So what if you met a guy who fulfilled every criteria in your list but there was no chemistry? And what if you are attracted to different types of guys, how on earth are you supposed to make a list out of it? I have nothing against making list, I have one too hehehe... ;) What I'm trying to say is don't fret too much if you don't have one.
lucky.....yea, if I'm lucky to find one in the 1st place..haha
Deletetrue enough..it is not important to make a list if u know subconsciously who u want so that u wont swoon down on every guy that u saw,,hehe =P
aiks!!! sick partner ehh... interesting~ Will intro to you if I stumble upon one... normal sick or terminally sick?
ReplyDeletejoke joke
herm~ you sound more picky than me, standard too high ehh? loll
i take terminally sick since i can change new one faster..haha
Deleteyerrrr, my mouth so bad one..choi choi xD
eh please joker...i only have this one criterion only while u..do i need to list it for u?hahaha =P
I also not very picky one hor... I think I am quite chin chai also =P what you think is irrelevant!!! lolllll
Deletewhat i think is really relevant since u wont admit it..hahaha
Deleteoh well, actually not bad pun be picky..at least u try ur best to find someone that will last forever rather than simply pick one =D
my requirement simple aje~ Mr Perfect can dy.... LOLLLLLLLLLLLL
Deleteif like that, think my curse gonna come true..see u there k, u know what i mean =P hahahaha
DeleteNOOOOOO!!!! I DON WANNNNNNNN!!!!! T_T
DeleteOk, I take what ever that comes... uhuh... better than stay at that place... =(
hahaha..jsut kidding lo..i know u can find one that suit ur taste and even better =)
Deletejust, dont forget to come visit me once a month =P haha
Does the list thingy actually work out? I doubt that. lol.
ReplyDeleteYou're not a weirdo. You're just caring and making sure things fall in the right place and time. ;)
it wont work everytime but it does help, one way or the other. it's more like to keep u focus than keep chasing every potential guy..haha
DeleteI love the term. thank you =D