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Saturday, May 19, 2012

GTFO!!!!!

Today was supposed to be a normal, boring, maybe little bit happy weekend like it always be.



My blogviews reached 10,000..wooohoooooooo!!!!!! XD But really, actually nothing to shout about. I believe half of it is from my own viewing =P haha

Then, wasting almost my entire evening bitching with duckie(u know who u are)...don't go change ur pics anymore or I have to come up with other nickname..haha

But, that's where it stopped and turned bad.

Was chatting with my friend in Oz and got a terrible news. One of my friend there gonna ask for divorce from her husband because he cheated behind her back and married another woman. When I heard that, my mind went blank for a while, really couldn't comprehend it. I was thinking, "What the heck I just heard?" I really couldn't believe it happening.

Ever since then, I felt disheartened and my day just became worse. I knew and very close with them, the kids. With this, what gonna happen with the kids? I always hate divorce because of this. The kids sure will get drag into this mess somehow especially if they fight for custody.

AAARRRRGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! I HATE THIS!!!!!!!!

This is the time when I relieved I'm gay. At least if something is not working up between me and the other partner, we only ruin ourselves but not other, innocent lives

sigh~

Love,
me

11 comments:

  1. 10010 views? impressive~ champagne or caviar? hahahaha

    ya, but single doesn't count... bluek =P

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    1. Caviar lo...champagne later someone so fussy dont drink it..said tasted like motherfucker rotten grape water..haha XD

      u la...really like to rub it on my face ka...bluekkkkk

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  2. Disagree.

    Gay or not, things are bound to happen, just that it comes in different forms! :) Straight people will have kids and stuffs and custodies whatsoever to worry, We gaymen have our rights and stuffs and legality and stuffs to handle as well. Its equally stress demanding. and WHO SAY WE DONT HAVE KIDS? i will want kids in the future just you vait!!! YOU VAITTTT!! lollllllllll!! sorry i siao today...

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    1. wait i just realize, YOUR POST TITLE HAS GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR POST PUN?!!!

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    2. hahahahaha...i dont say there wont be any problems for gay but rather I said it just gonna affect us rather than dragging some kids into mess that we created ourselves..I would love to have kids too in future but IVF/surrogate mother is damn expensive liao..huhu =)

      only today??nahhh, u always siao everyday lo =P hahaha

      got la..where not got...hahaha XD

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  3. haha oh well, like tuls said each side have their own things to deal with. At least its better than a guy marrying a girl just to satisfy the family, in the end he is actually gay and have several affairs. That's even more devastating than going for another woman IMO.

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    1. well tempus, i was nearly the affair but luckily i snap out of it quick enough.. hahahaha.. but it was quite an experience la... oh well....

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    2. @tempus - IMHO, both are devastating to deal with...I'm referring to the impact it had if they have kids. I don't really care about the adults since they are big enough to think by themselves...on well, let just hope none of us will get caught in such affair(oh, one almost got XD)

      @tuls - wah tuls, why la u must attract all sort of ppl towards u..dont be too greedy la =P hehe

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    3. @tempus - true... but eh, how they can marry woman aah? wont the woman found out? As in bila nak ehem ehem... he cannot "raise" any objection? lolllll

      @tuls - Tell me, at what time that you are not?

      @soul232 - Experience my dear, experience... salty? have some lemon instead... =P

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    4. what the heck are u mumbling about, joker..haha...care to explain? =P

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    5. @tuls: you did? hmm so you were the nearly 3rd party?

      @soul 232:children normally becomes the catalyst to either bond or break the family. its totally up to the couple to del with it

      @jokerPJ: you might be surprised how many of the married men in the past generation might just be out after they filed a divorce 15 or 20 years after their marriage. well, being gay might not be just all about ahems, affection is always another thing to consider. some men just obliged to get a family to satisfy their parents.

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