of balancing two ends

I drafted a lot of posts in my head but in the end, just leave it half done without any intention to put it down in words. Always told others not to care too much bout what others think; seems like I can't walk my own talk.

So, let's write about something else, less trivial matter in my mind now.

One of many things that I keep speculating till now - how would I manage to balance between friend and lover IF I'm ever in a relationship?

Imagine I'm working 5 days a week, 8-5 each day. I can spend time after work to find my lover for dinner n quick catch-up but nothing more. So, it would have to be weekend for date and some quiet time. In that situation, it gonna be hard to make time for my friend. I can go out together with le bf and my friends if they know each other but still, it's not the same when it's just the two of us only.

If I am to meet just my friend on the weekend, then I would have to wait for another week before can see le bf and vice versa. I can meet both by meeting on different day but it gonna be so tiring and won't have much time for rest.

A piece of advice I keep true to myself and others if they ask is to put a slightly bit more attention on my friend than my partner in early stage of relationship. Boyfriend comes and goes but friends stick forever, if u care enough. They would understand that u won't have much time to spend with them anymore but it doesn't mean u can just ignore them.

If by any stroke of bad luck ur relationship doesn't work out well and all these while u been neglecting ur friend, u will be left with nothing. So, think well and balance properly.

Love,
me