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Stumbled across this link shared by someone

http://revolutionarygaymagazine.tumblr.com/post/45872725589/common-relationship-mistakes-gay-men-make

If u are so so lazy, I summarize the 7 points raised here with a bit of my comments.

1. Open relationship
It's fine for me for people to have open relationship but not during early stage of the relationship. What's important is never lie or cheat behind his back. If u wanna 'eat outside', talk to him about it. It may sounds awkward but u gotta do what u gotta do.

2. Neediness
True, true and true! Seen few relationships that ended just because one side became overly possessive of the other. He's not ur 'thing'. He's a living human being. Give him space and time off. Even a dog will bite u if u keep bothering him all day long.

3. Arguing
Common problem in a relationship; straight or gay alike. It is aggravated in a gay relationship when it's between two egoistic guy. Duh, ur ego wont bring u anywhere. Lower it down a lil' bit, please. Compromise doesnt mean u are weak. It means he matters more to u than winning a stupid argument.

4. Being with someone for comfort(money, apartment)
I add one more element. Being with someone for the sake of having someone/relationship. Never ever do that. Period.

5. Going to the club together
I cant bring myself to agree with the author on this point. If u think a guy shagging his ass in front of u on the dance floor can make u go gaga over him, u shouldn't even be there in the first place. We may be a horny animal but I'm sure we all have some self-constraint when we get into relationship. Dont be such a jealous bitch.

6. Putting your relationship status on FB
I have no comment on this one because I dont really get his point.

7. Not allowing your boyfriend to go out with friends
This is like the pinnacle of all; control freak. When u two get together, it doesnt mean the old life has to be abandoned. U just have to tweak it a lil bit here and there to suit a new person in. Most people do it wrongly and make a major revamp. That's where the anger and frustration will start building up. If u dont trust ur boyfriend and need to know every single things about him, where he's at, what he did the whole day, who he went out with; u aint a boyfriend to him, my dear. U become his nanny/mum already and nobody want a second mum.

Hope I won't be doing any stupid mistake when I get into a relationship.

Toodles!

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