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Saturday, July 13, 2013

twinkle star

I used to adhere to my preference rather strictly when it comes to guy because I reckon since he gonna be the one that I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with, I want him to be the one that is perfect, kinda, in my eye.

Sadly, fairytale doesnt exist.

There' no such thing as Mr. Perfect and if u try to be too picky, don't be surprised if u have limited choices available. It's okay to have preference set in ur mind but foolish to follow it blindly.

What if ur heart say yes to a certain someone but ur brain says no because he doesnt fulfill ur requirement? Will u reject him?

I'm rambling too much past my main point. What I actually try to write in is that I start to give myself more flexibility than usual, ain't too rigid anymore. It made me realized that there are lots more interesting guy out there than I ever think of.

On a side note, I found that those twink; u know those with boyish-look and weird hair colour(orange,purple, green etc) and bottom most of the time and kinda clingy a bit; are kinda.........adorable =P hahahahahaa


U get paid millions to chase a ball through the field with bring no benefit to the humankind in whatsoever way.

Love,
me

12 comments:

  1. You said it! I think the most important thing to look for is the partner's core values. As long as these values do not clash with your own, everything should be OK. :)

    Of course, having similar interests helps too.

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  2. there is perfection only when you accept there are imperfections...

    one of the all time ironies of life

    :-)

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    1. We become perfect by completing each other. Alone, we wil always be imperfect

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    2. how about this - there will always be imperfections, alone or with someone else. it is only when we accept imperfections that we can be perfect. just like, if we cannot accept black, we can never appreciate white.

      :-)

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    3. I suppose this is where we agree to disagree =D Both are right in their own way ^^

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    4. haha... ok ok.

      oh btw, it is good to reflect whether we frame perfection as a "feel" or an "outcome/ state of being".

      :-)

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  3. boyish-look and weird hair colour(orange,purple, green etc) and bottom, most of them is lala people.. You can find it in Sg wang or BTS...

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    1. hahahaha. no need so far, around my area also got dy. lol

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    1. not sure why u deleted ur comment Shn.L. I dont find anything wrong with it. hahaha

      Some do need to be treated like u said but some of them, that are jsut their nature, I suppose

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