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Friday, June 14, 2013

friendzoned

When u started to get to know someone, how well u should treat him? or more appropriate, how u should treat him?

As an acquaintance? A stranger? A friend? A good buddy?

This is where my strength(or flaw) lies....

If I feel like I can get along with someone, I will treat them like I have known them for years. It's more than just friend. It's the way other people treat their bestie.

Most of the time, it will be well. Only just one small problem that might arises from here.

That's if he's the kind that can't fall for a friend.

What I mean is since u treat someone well and he starts to see u as friend which in turn prevent him to fall for u.

How sad that would be.

Even with such risk, think I will never change the way I approach people. U might lose a chance to date someone but at least u gain another friend. U still gain something, in the end


Love,
me

4 comments:

  1. Hmmm...treat as friend first for some times, then slowly start to show you want more than that?

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    1. I always treat as friend first. the problem is when someone see me as friend and he cant fall for his friend

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  2. Remember. Friendship can change to courtship. Give time and space it will bloom.

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    1. he kills it before it has a chance to bloom. so whatever la

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