Am I a jerk if I want my friend to come talk to me every night?
Was talking to Mr Shadowind just now and trying to console him bout his recent unfruitful relationship when he brought up the issue bout him feeling lonely and not having any close friend to talk to(idiot, u have me =P).
Strange enough, only now I realized I am in such situation as him as well.
Yes, I do have those few idiots around me that keep making my life miserable(guys, please dont kill me XD). What I mean is those friends that u have known for years, from primary or secondary schools.
I felt jealous when someone can proudly say "oh, I have known him for 10/15 years" or "we went to high school together" or something along the line. Some claim that it's not quantity that counts when it comes to friendship and I do admit it's true but isn't it better to have both, quantity and quality.
I think I have really started to really not care bout them anymore when I didn't even attend their wedding. Out of lots of my friend's wedding, I only attended two. One because I was back to town at that time. The other one; he was a friend that I knew the longest and once the closest I ever got to the point that his parent turned to me and asked to advise him when got problem arise. Because of that, I promise myself I will cut some slack for him even if we end up separated.
What do u feel when ur so-called close friend only let u know a week before the ceremony that he's getting married? That was even through fb invitation, not personally. I'm been stubborn and selfish here but that's the least I asked for. All these while, I imagined I will be his best man on such special day but well, that's not his plan look like.
I'm not saying I'm the good guy here. Just.....that's how things are right now.
sigh~
Love,
me
quantity doesnt matter to me though, quality is more important, of course that is my thought, juz an opinion ^^
ReplyDeleteof course one close, sincere friend is always better than a hundred fake one =)
DeleteQuantity doesn't gives me any impact in anyway at all. Intact quality is more important. On my selfish mode, I do want a person to talk to me every night. Then again it's life. I have no one besides my dearest bloggers actually. I have no friends that I could speak to physically. That is so bloody lonely. So lonely.
ReplyDelete*hugs* I can understand ur situation pretty well. I do want one that I can buzz in the middle of night and still willing to entertain me. sigh~
DeleteYou got me also ma.... :P I make you lemon frozen yogurt what...xDD
ReplyDeleteyeah right. make, take pic and tag me. such a 'nice' friend i have here. LOL
Deletei have quite a few lah that i know longest. but i guess the quality is the most important. the quantity not so much lah though it will be good when we reminisce the good old times during school :)
ReplyDeletethat's the thing! but now, aint that possible anymore
Deletefriends grow old together, sometimes they grow apart with time, sometimes after 10 years, when they finally meet back, things will be the same as 10 years before when you guys were close, but sometimes it doesnt..
ReplyDeleteanyhow pun, this is life..
oi bitch dont go into bitch mode, we havent update ourselves with sexciting weekend yet!!!! hahahahahaha
yeah. always told myself; people come, people go. must not cling to one that chose not to stay.
DeleteLOL. not that sexciting as u thought right =P
I know i have u lar <3 <3 <3 but ur advice always too wise and real for me lol! anyway yeah u're awesome, and i know right T_T its like i drift apart from my high school friends too...sigh...probably because of our orientation...
ReplyDeleteyeah i know. so im just gonna watch from far and let u make a mistake and suffer. then only i barge in to help. how's that sound to u? =P hehe
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