expecting stuff

"Top? Bottom?"

That is like the most common question ever asked by guys though not the most appropriate one when u just started dating someone =P Not like I have ask him yet, can't be bother by it and ain't too keen to know.

There is one other question that I found hard to answer since the question is kinda vague in nature or maybe just because I never put serious thinking in understanding it.

What is ur expectation out of this relationship/meeting this someone/dating that guy?(or something in that same line)

I don't really like that question because I do believe that in a relationship or in meeting a new guy or in any encounter, u simply don't put any expectation. One reason is to be fair with that guy and secondly, to avoid disappointment.

Now, when I been asked that same question by him, I stumbled upon words and still not able to come up with convincing answer. If I really have to answer it, my expectation might be something like this:

1. I expect u to always tell the truth, no matter how painful it gonna be because lying will hurt more.
2. I expect u not to hide anything from me. U can choose when to tell, I will wait.

See, only 2 that I can come up with. If u ask me what I don't expect from him, I can easily answer that.

1. I don't expect u to be there for me all the time. I understand u have ur own life over there. Just a minute or two here and there and I'll be content for now.

I think that should be it. I never demand much since I also can't provide much.

Be content with whatever u get and u will be happy.

Love,
me