tell or not tell

Most of us are still staying low in term of revealing our sexual orientation to the general public especially in this forsaken land where everything is wrong and forbidden except things that benefit the politician. To those that came out to their family and get accepted, either peacefully or forcefully, there's nothing else to be afraid of.

Because of that, we choose carefully which one of our straight friend that we reveal our 'dark' secret to as we never know whether they can accept it or not. Well, if they really considered u as friend, they should accept u for the better or worse. But, that besides the point of what I'm trying to think today.

I know telling a straight guy/girl about gay friend we have gonna be quite a tricky thing to do but what about telling other gay friend? I mean we are all in the same boat anyway, so is there still a need for discreetness?

For example; let's say I make a new gay friend over jack'd, is it permissible for me to introduce/show his pic to my other gay friends without asking him first?

I have never seen such thing in the straight world, like "Hey, can I show ur pic to other friends that I have?" It ain't happen, no

But one thing I know for sure; if u gonna stay low/discreet and don't want to reveal ur existence, then don't ask me about my gay friends.

This is just my thought, anyway. So, chill up =)

Love,
me