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Wednesday, January 9, 2013

blood ties, water freezes

Between conceiving ur own or adopting one, what difference does it make?
Can I have them all, please? XD

For us that do not have any plan of getting a girl pregnant, the 1st option is kinda not possible unless u are super rich and can afford an IVF oversea. But even if I somehow become a straight through 'miracle', I still will adopt one.

Lineage is not something I put too much emphasis on. Name is just a name, u can't attribute honour or pride or anything to it. My name is xxxxx; when I die, it dies with me. That's it.

I pity my chinese gay friends that is the only son of the family with a very traditional, conservative parent. They gonna have such a hard time with constant pressure from their parent to find a girlfriend, get married and 'spawn' to carry on the family name.

Blood is thicker than water? Oh please! If the son/daughter wanna abandon u once they are grown up, it doesn't matter whether u are related by blood or not, it will still happen. As if the blood has a magical property to sway their heart and make them stay. Heartless will always be heartless, they already don't have blood pumping.

The connection matters most.


Love,
me
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17 comments:

  1. MJJanuary 10, 2013 at 12:15 AM

    I consider about adopting..But the only concern is, when the kid ask about, ''where's mummy?''.

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    1. soul232January 12, 2013 at 7:54 AM

      then just tell him about her biological mother XD we're not lying right

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  2. Jason's CornerJanuary 10, 2013 at 12:36 AM

    I so agree with the second last paragraph!

    By the way, I AM the 'chinese gay friends that is the only son of the family'. Haha... I'm royally screwed. No pun intended.

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    1. Ms. FJanuary 10, 2013 at 6:48 AM

      Same here. 'the only son'. the pressure is even greater when u r not the type of son who would abandon the parents. ><

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    2. soul232January 12, 2013 at 7:55 AM

      Jason - i take the pun anytime..hehehe

      Ms. F - I always u, my miss, is ain't a lady XD lolllll...aaaawwwww, we are all good boy even though not 'normal' =)

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  3. UnknownJanuary 10, 2013 at 12:56 PM

    Well, my family got nothing but sons..lol (Don't shoot me *Peace*)

    I like children so adoption is my first option, of course I would like have my own child but...sigh

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    1. soul232January 12, 2013 at 7:57 AM

      HAHAHAHAHHA. nice la as long u are not the eldest, shud be fine. I have like another 5 siblings to provide them grandsons. shud be enough right XD

      just do whatever u want..adopt or the other, as long u're happy =)

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  4. KhaiJanuary 10, 2013 at 2:10 PM

    Im the only son too...-.-

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    1. soul232January 12, 2013 at 7:58 AM

      and the eldest sumore. u are totally in trouble, khai XD hahahahaha

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  5. savanteJanuary 10, 2013 at 4:55 PM

    Why IVF overseas? We have plenty here and our obstetrics dept is probably one of the best - since we have plenty of patients to practice on.

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    1. soul232January 12, 2013 at 7:59 AM

      ooohhhhhhhhhh....so malaysia already have surrogate mother service? that's interesting. I'll give it a try if financial allows me XD

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  6. peaceJanuary 10, 2013 at 7:20 PM

    interestingly, many of us are gay but live in a straight community. and many of us has a very straight mentality. perhaps that is the way we were brought up

    :-)

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  7. kiddystickJanuary 10, 2013 at 8:32 PM

    I'm the eldest son, the eldest grandson.. and everyone was like "have gf dy ar?"

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    1. soul232January 12, 2013 at 8:01 AM

      walao wei! prepare for the next barrage in a month time. bring back some photo of any random girls to show them XD huhu

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  8. Ash GodivaJanuary 11, 2013 at 10:19 AM

    i'm the only grandson=.=
    *shoots Shin Y*

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