Writing is a way for me to remind myself things that I purposely tried to ignore or put aside just because I can't handle it. So, u will realize that there will be some recurring theme in my post every now and then. Just like tonight.
When u treat someone well, there's no explicit law that requires him to RECIPROCATE. That's the one thing that u must never forget. People tend to forget this simple rule and thought they are entitled to the same treatment.
No, my dear. Sorry to say this but u aren't.
U spend time with him, trying your best to entertain him whenever it is convenient for both of u, make him laugh, make him happy, cheer him up when he's feeling down; those actions are all done because u either like/love/or have a crush on him.
When u are EXPECTING that he will fall all over u just like u did, u are in for a heartbreak. A really bad and shattering break. Unless he also views u in the same light, at most he will be treating u like a friend. But, don't FLINCH or get MOODY or EMO and all these nonsense shit. After all, everything starts with a friend, no? Attraction at the first sight is good but it won't last long. It's better to get to know someone without been clouded by unnecessary emotion.
If in the end it doesn't work out, take it as an EXPERIENCE that will make u grow stronger and tougher to face the next one. U tried your best already and there will be NO REGRET that gonna haunt u with "what if..". Wish him all the best because if your feeling is genuine, what's matter most is his happiness even if it isn't with u.
After all, time's running short. No regret!
Love,
me
Good advice. But then again, treating others nicely just so that s/he will do the same sometimes works...
ReplyDeleteI guess it depends on the person.
yeah, sometimes it will work but if it doesn't, u will start to feel like u wasting time or something =)
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